Some women like the classically handsome, model-good looks of Brad Pitt. Some women like the quirky, yet sexy, uniqueness of Ben Stiller. I happen to fall into the second group of women. This is the guy that if he wasn’t famous, all but a few women would dismiss at a bar. I am not one of them. The reason? Because I have always found uniqueness to be hotter than perfection whether the guy is rich, poor, famous, or not famous. Ben Stiller just has “it” and he always has (Does anyone remember Reality Bites?), and that is why he is our Fit After Thirty Hotty!

A lot of you women might say he’s too short, and at 5′7″ maybe he is shorter than a lot of you, but he’s a giant when it comes to sex appeal, in my book. Some women might say that his ears stick out too much or he’s too nice or too boy next door or too quirky. All of those things would be true, and that’s why he’s hot.

If there is any dude that embodies the Fit After Thirty principal of just being the best version of oneself possible, then it is this guy. He came out of the gate comfortable in his own skin despite his lack of resemblance to Mr. Pitt and other Hollywood stars, and he capitalized on his best asset - his humor. He embraced his own unique brand of sarcasm and blessed the rest of us with his creative genius. (The second Madagascar comes out in November, and I look forward to watching every promotional interview the guy does!)

Aside from his ambition, sense of humor, and fabulous looks, he seems to be what I think every woman would want in a husband. Have you heard this guy talk about his wife and kids? The man is passionately devoted. He’s full of heart all the way around. His family, his career, his friends. Is there anything hotter in a man than passion for the things that matter to him? I don’t think so.